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That Time You Were the Light--What’s left in a broken world?

Annie D. Stutley

Oct 16
4 min

That Time You Were the Light--What’s left in a broken world?

Does the world have nothing good to offer?

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That Time You Held Your Tongue -- The Fruit of Shutting Up

Annie D. Stutley

Oct 10
7 min

That Time You Held Your Tongue -- The Fruit of Shutting Up

But is it necessary to always be heard, or is there something to be said (pun intended) for shutting up?

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That Time You Were Prudent -- The New Mythology

Annie D. Stutley

Oct 3
8 min

That Time You Were Prudent -- The New Mythology

How blessed was I to believe blindly as a child. How blessed am I today to believe with discernment!

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That Time You Cleaned Up -- "It’s not what you LOOK like. It’s what you DO like."

Annie D. Stutley

Sep 25
7 min

That Time You Cleaned Up -- "It’s not what you LOOK like. It’s what you DO like."

I needed to give the impression that we were an ideal candidate, not just clean, but desirable.

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That Time You Changed Things Up -- The phrase you didn’t know you needed to hear

Annie D. Stutley

Sep 18
4 min

That Time You Changed Things Up -- The phrase you didn’t know you needed to hear

We’re still not sure what the phrase actually meant at its origin. The words are entirely contradictory.

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That Time You Read the Bold Print, or 7 Awesome Dance Workouts and 1500 Other Words You Won't Read

Annie D. Stutley

Sep 11
8 min

That Time You Read the Bold Print, or 7 Awesome Dance Workouts and 1500 Other Words You Won't Read

In the history of this little blog that could, I have written three lists. Until today.

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That Time You Knew Enough -- Coming-of-age as told by a mother for her daughter

Annie D. Stutley

Aug 20
6 min

That Time You Knew Enough -- Coming-of-age as told by a mother for her daughter

I can’t help but ask if she’s setting herself up for just another one of life’s manipulative phases...

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That Time You Learned Your Lesson -- Free will...friend or foe?

Annie D. Stutley

Aug 14
7 min

That Time You Learned Your Lesson -- Free will...friend or foe?

But I was doomed. And that became the day I learned what “guilty by association” meant.

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That Time Your Middle Finger Saved the World -- Your hand in ending a soapbox society

Annie D. Stutley

Jul 17
7 min

That Time Your Middle Finger Saved the World -- Your hand in ending a soapbox society

They were exhausted, close to hating each other, and definitely plotting my demise -- presumably by way of a rabid guinea pig.

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That Time You Didn’t Force It -- A father’s advice in the midst of a nightmare

Annie D. Stutley

Jun 26
7 min

That Time You Didn’t Force It -- A father’s advice in the midst of a nightmare

The three words that pulled me from a chronic nightmare

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That Time You Went Rogue -- It’s not the destination, Kid. It’s the journey.

Annie D. Stutley

Jun 17
8 min

That Time You Went Rogue -- It’s not the destination, Kid. It’s the journey.

Some of us are visionaries. And some of us are visionary overlords.

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That Time You Fell Down the Rabbit Hole -- When being yourself is the thrill of a lifetime

Annie D. Stutley

Jun 5
6 min

That Time You Fell Down the Rabbit Hole -- When being yourself is the thrill of a lifetime

I wanted to be different because at the crux of every phase was the truth that I didn’t really know who I was enough to “be myself.”

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That Time You Were the Omega Dog -- What humans can learn from pack mentality

Annie D. Stutley

May 29
8 min

That Time You Were the Omega Dog -- What humans can learn from pack mentality

Maybe wolves and dogs aren’t assholes after all. Maybe they’re more like the rest of us?

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That Time You Made “The Face” -- Why we can’t accept compliments

Annie D. Stutley

May 21
7 min

That Time You Made “The Face” -- Why we can’t accept compliments

When did a compliment go from fabulous to icky?

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That Time You Still Gave May the Middle Finger -- When 2020 hands us its beer

Annie D. Stutley

May 13
9 min

That Time You Still Gave May the Middle Finger -- When 2020 hands us its beer

The following is a Tale of Two Mays….

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That Time You Cursed Like a Toddler -- The wisdom of a foul mouth

Annie D. Stutley

Apr 22
7 min

That Time You Cursed Like a Toddler -- The wisdom of a foul mouth

You can always find another word for "very". And sometimes that word is the F-word, frankly.

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That Time You Were the Grinch That Stole Easter -- Lessons from traditions under quarantine

Annie D. Stutley

Apr 15
7 min

That Time You Were the Grinch That Stole Easter -- Lessons from traditions under quarantine

There are things I can’t control -- like holidays during a quarantine.

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That Time You Went From Zero to One -- Women can have midlife crises too

Annie D. Stutley

Apr 7
7 min

That Time You Went From Zero to One -- Women can have midlife crises too

I had to look like I was in control even while out of control, like a drunk who says, “I got it!” even as she trips over her own feet.

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That Time You Had Tea with the Queen -- When good manners are more than a gesture

Annie D. Stutley

Mar 18
7 min

That Time You Had Tea with the Queen -- When good manners are more than a gesture

"I hit send on my comment and wondered if accepted social norms are forcing out the kind of manners my grandmother drilled into me..."

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That Time You Would Rather--When perspective is found within a Porta Potty

Annie D. Stutley

Mar 3
6 min

That Time You Would Rather--When perspective is found within a Porta Potty

Though it may appear my writing is in the toilet this week, I promise this ridiculous story is both true and has a deeper meaning.

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